Posts Tagged ‘trusting people’

Pilt

10 Day Challenge – Day 10 – One confession

Well, it’s not easy to confess something. I am not a religious person and therefore I’ve never been to a confession before. I’ve never said the words “Forgive me Father for I have sinned”. And I’m not going admit a sin here also but I am going to confess a little about myself. I have stated that I find it hard to trust people and it takes time for me to let people in. That is  because my trust has been betrayed before and misused and I won’t let myself be made fool of twice. And this misuse has hurt me. To avoid getting hurt in the future I don’t trust people easily and kind of “test” them to see if they are worthy. Only then I can be sure that I won’t get hurt by trusting them. That is why I won’t let people get close to me easily and that’s why it takes time to get to know me. But once I am sure I can trust someone I will be with them until the end. Being loyal to someone is something I highly value.

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10 Day Challenge – Day 3 – 8 Ways To Win Your Heart

* Be patient – I do not trust people easily and I won’t go out with anyone which means that giving my heart to someone is even harder. So even tough I might already have feelings for you I will still try to think before giving my heart out.

*Old-fashioned chivalry – simple gestures like holding the door open to me, setting my chair, helping my jacket on, offering to walk me home.

* Be intelligent – if I can talk you about politics, history, literature or music then you have definitely have a shot.

* Courage – if you can step out for me in front of someone or protect someone weaker when he/she needs it then it’s definitely positive. And courage in general also.

* Having a great sense of humor

* Being passionate about music

* Understand that my family means a lot to me

* Even if you are super-busy you find some extra time to spend with me